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 ====== PBA120H: How to Effectively Dialogue About Pre-Born Human Rights ====== ====== PBA120H: How to Effectively Dialogue About Pre-Born Human Rights ======
  
-FIXME Include more mock-dialogue examples? +FIXME need a bank of role-playing scenarios, e.g. real things an interlocutor might say, personas, user stories to help facilitate role-playing dialogue (rather than just relying on people with experience latching on to something that comes to mind) 
 +  - Bridging the Gap 
 +  - Three-question apologetic 
 +  - Practice conversations 
 +    - Demo 
 +    - Pairs 
 +    - Small group conversations and critique
  
 ===== Integrating Head, Heart, and Hands: The Ambassador Model ===== ===== Integrating Head, Heart, and Hands: The Ambassador Model =====
  
 According to Aristotle, [[http://www.classicalwriting.com/blog/2010/01/12/discovering-the-arguments-artistic-and-inartistic-proofs/|effective communicators]] need to have ethos (credibility/character), pathos (empathy), and logos (logic). Roman Catholic Archbishop of Toronto, Cardinal Thomas Collins, puts it this way: we need to //build a bridge// (ethos), //touch the heart// (pathos), and then and only then can we effectively //deliver the message// (logos). If all we have is an argument, no one will want to listen. According to Aristotle, [[http://www.classicalwriting.com/blog/2010/01/12/discovering-the-arguments-artistic-and-inartistic-proofs/|effective communicators]] need to have ethos (credibility/character), pathos (empathy), and logos (logic). Roman Catholic Archbishop of Toronto, Cardinal Thomas Collins, puts it this way: we need to //build a bridge// (ethos), //touch the heart// (pathos), and then and only then can we effectively //deliver the message// (logos). If all we have is an argument, no one will want to listen.
 +{{ :utsfl:classroom:seminars:cc_good_ambassador.jpg?300|}}
 Another way to think about this is through Stand to Reason’s [[http://www.str.org/about/ambassadors-creed|ambassador model]]. To be effective pro-life ambassadors, we need: Another way to think about this is through Stand to Reason’s [[http://www.str.org/about/ambassadors-creed|ambassador model]]. To be effective pro-life ambassadors, we need:
  
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 **Wisdom in Dialogue: Being //Proactive// Rather than //Reactive//** **Wisdom in Dialogue: Being //Proactive// Rather than //Reactive//**
  
-Abortion advocates may ask a question that is designed to make the pro-lifer defend herself. It is important for the pro-lifer to remember the abortion advocate supports killing innocent children and that’s the position that should be challenged. A wise pro-life apologist will avoid getting distracted by tangential issues brought up by an abortion-advocate, and will //re-focus// the debate on the primary issue at hand: the killing of pre-born children.+Abortion advocates may ask a question that is designed to make the pro-lifer defend herself. ([[https://twitter.com/ApiecalypseNow/status/1151175609772584960|Here are several examples from Jen Bundock]]) It is important for the pro-lifer to remember the abortion advocate supports killing innocent children and that’s the position that should be challenged. A wise pro-life apologist will avoid getting distracted by tangential issues brought up by an abortion-advocate, and will //re-focus// the debate on the primary issue at hand: the killing of pre-born children.
  
 Here is a **dialogue example** from when the local media in St. Catharine's reported on CCBR's demonstrations in the city. Devorah Gilman responded proactively rather than reactively to a question from an abortion supporter: Here is a **dialogue example** from when the local media in St. Catharine's reported on CCBR's demonstrations in the city. Devorah Gilman responded proactively rather than reactively to a question from an abortion supporter:
  
-"[Nicole] McDowell, who said she cares for foster children, also asked [Devorah] Gilman how many foster children she was raising. +"[Nicole] McDowell, who said she cares for foster children, also asked [Devorah] Gilman how many foster children she was raising. 'Whether I personally adopt or foster children, can I not still speak out on behalf of the most vulnerable Canadian children that are being slaughtered?' said Gilman."((http://www.stcatharinesstandard.ca/2017/06/20/pro-choicer-arrested-at-pro-life-rally))
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-'Whether I personally adopt or foster children, can I not still speak out on behalf of the most vulnerable Canadian children that are being slaughtered?' said Gilman."((http://www.stcatharinesstandard.ca/2017/06/20/pro-choicer-arrested-at-pro-life-rally))+
  
 For more examples of how to be proactive rather than reactive, check out this [[https://www.endthekilling.ca/blog/2016/11/30/use-your-game-sense|blog post]] from another CCBR staff member. For more examples of how to be proactive rather than reactive, check out this [[https://www.endthekilling.ca/blog/2016/11/30/use-your-game-sense|blog post]] from another CCBR staff member.
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 ==== Ask Questions ==== ==== Ask Questions ====
 +One of the most important aspects of pro-life dialogue is **asking questions.** Asking questions is important for several reasons: it shows you care and are willing to hear what the other person has to say; it keeps the other person in the conversation; and it forces the individual to explain his or her beliefs.
  
-"Questions have power. They can set us on a journey looking for answers we previously didn't know. Or, they can draw out of us answers that, deep down, we //did// know but hadn't acknowledged until the opportunity arose from a question." ((p. 11, //Love Unleashes Life//))+> "Questions have power. They can set us on a journey looking for answers we previously didn't know. Or, they can draw out of us answers that, deep down, we //did// know but hadn't acknowledged until the opportunity arose from a question." ((p. 11, //Love Unleashes Life//))
  
-Questions make people //think//. They make the wheels start turning in someone's head. We may not have an hour to dialogue with every person about abortion--in the context of pro-life activism such as "Choice" Chain, we may only get a few minutes to speak with someone. This is why we open our conversation with a compelling question, such as, "What do //you// think about abortion?" By asking people compelling questions, people will have to think more deeply about the abortion issue and about their own views on it. +Questions make people //think//. They make the wheels start turning in someone's head. We may not have an hour to dialogue with every person about abortion--in the context of pro-life activism such as "Choice" Chain, we may only get a few minutes to speak with someone. This is why we open our conversation with a question, such as, "What do //you// think about abortion?" By asking people compelling questions, people will have to think more deeply about the abortion issue and about their own views on it. 
  
 <note> **The Power of Questions** <note> **The Power of Questions**
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-"Questions lead the questioner to information. Questions lead the answerer to clarity. Questions create an atmosphere of respect where people listen to one another, and that leads to understanding."((p.13)) 
  
 ==== Tell Stories ==== ==== Tell Stories ====
  
 +Stories are powerful because people can relate to stories. Stories paint a picture in people's heads so that they can see how a concept plays out in reality. By using stories, analogies, and vivid descriptions, we can help people understand concepts that seem abstract or unfamiliar.  
 +> "Tell stories to reach people’s hearts and minds. Brain scans reveal that stories stimulate and engage the human brain, helping the speaker connect with the audience and making it much more likely that the audience will agree with the speaker’s point of view." - Carmine Gallo((Author of //Talk Like TED//. Quote source: https://www.forbes.com/sites/carminegallo/2014/03/04/9-public-speaking-lessons-from-the-worlds-greatest-ted-talks/2/#40e5bb711fd0))
 +For instance, some people can have a hard time grasping the reality that the single-celled zygote produced through fertilization is a human being. How can something so very small, and something that looks very different from a born human, be equal to you and I? Using an analogy called "the Polaroid analogy" can help people to understand this concept better:
  
 +<note> **Polaroid analogy** 
  
 +Insert Tikvah's story
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 ==== Give Evidence ==== ==== Give Evidence ====
  
 One of the reasons that we use abortion victim photography in all of our projects is because the images present //compelling evidence// against abortion. They communicate instantly the humanity of the pre-born and the inhumanity of abortion. By using these images when we dialogue with people, we can ground our conversations in the reality of what abortion does--in the reality of what kind of "choice" we're talking about.  One of the reasons that we use abortion victim photography in all of our projects is because the images present //compelling evidence// against abortion. They communicate instantly the humanity of the pre-born and the inhumanity of abortion. By using these images when we dialogue with people, we can ground our conversations in the reality of what abortion does--in the reality of what kind of "choice" we're talking about. 
  
-<note> "Some time ago after a pro-life presentation, I swung by the Macs down the street from my house with a friend. My friend asked the cashier, a middle-aged Indian fellow, what he thought about abortion. //Pro-choice//, was the answer. //It’s the woman’s decision at the end of the day.// +<note> I approached a student and asked him if he was aware that Canada had no legal protection for the pre-born. He said no and we went on to talk about how Canada was one of three countries that allowed abortion in all nine months of pregnancy. We also discussed various circumstances of both mother and child, and developmental stages of the pre-born, etc., but he ultimately believed that abortion was permissible in the first trimester, but as soon as the pre-born began to resemble a human it should not be allowed to be killed. Having a card with a 10-week old aborted fetus in my pocket, I asked him if he’d ever seen such an image. He replied no, and when I showed him it, he was shocked. He didn’t comment on it immediately however, and I decided to let the image speak for itself. Instead, we continued to discuss other situations. 
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-So this week, I took one of our “Choice” cards, which depict a first trimester aborted fetus, and went back to the Macs. 'Here,' I offered. 'We talked about abortion awhile ago. Images like this helped me understand that we’re talking about a real human being and real violence.' +
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-He took the card, eyes widening. He didn’t say a word for close to a minute, except to murmur, “Wow. Wow.” Like so many other Canadians, he’d never seen what abortion does to a human being in the womb. Like so many other Canadians, his illusions were shattered when he did.+
  
-'I guess deep down, we all know it’s wrong,' he said finally. 'We humans, we do such terrible things to each other. We must learn how to love better.' He set the card on the till...We chatted until someone else entered the store, and parted ways. He waved the card at me. 'Thank you so much for sharing this.'" - Jonathon Van Maren((https://www.endthekilling.ca/blog/2015/12/09/one-easy-way-spread-truth-about-abortion))+After about another ten minutes of engaging in discussion, he brought up the image, and said: "You’re a smart guy with great arguments, but **nothing you said to me compares to the power of that image you showed me**. I can’t forget that. I think if you want to draw awareness to the reality of abortion, you should be doing more of that. If people see this, they won’t be so quick to abort their children." - Western University student, to Gerrit Van Dorland, [[https://www.endthekilling.ca/blog/2016/02/29/unity-our-best-shot-fortification|after seeing an image of an abortion victim]]
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 ==== Inspiring the Apathetic ==== ==== Inspiring the Apathetic ====
  
 +FIXME a story? Inspiring people to take action?
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 +https://www.torontoagainstabortion.org/2018/05/21/adoption-suffering-and-love-reflections-of-a-powerful-conversation-on-a-rainy-day/
 +- shifting someone's perspective
  
 +https://mariamccann.ca/2023/02/10/the-truth-is-a-light-in-the-darkness/ sharing "D=S-M" in conversation to inspire the hopeless
 ===== Role-Playing ===== ===== Role-Playing =====
 Role-play is a critical part of dialogue. Role-play is a critical part of dialogue.